It was my first day of my first trip working at a client in New York City. I stepped out onto the sidewalk of the Waldorf Astoria, all 240 (muscular) pounds of me. As I looked down at my phone for an address, I was shoved aside and nearly knocked over by a crazed New Yorker. I loudly said, “Excuse ME, pal,” to which the CNY responded “Maybe don’t stop in the middle of the bad word bad word sidewalk bad word.”
It’s been five years since that fateful morning and I’ve learned a lot about getting around in New York City. There are plenty of How To articles regarding the City (especially the subway) that are much more thorough than this one, but I haven’t found many that will tell you what I’m about to tell you about how to get around peacefully in New York City.
1. How to navigate the sidewalks
This one is easy to say but hard to implement. Many New Yorkers do not drive or own a car since parking is so expensive here. They either walk, subway, bike, or taxi to their destinations. So here’s the trick for tourists: think of the sidewalks as highways. Before doing anything on a sidewalk, ask yourself if you’d do it in a car on a highway and act accordingly. If you don’t, you’ll encounter “sidewalk rage”, a very real thing in NYC.
Would you ever slam on your brakes on a highway to check your phone? Of course not, cars would slam into you. It’s the same in New York (see story above). If you need to check your phone, go ahead and exit to the right, lean up against a building, and check your phone. If you’re walking slower, stay to the right-hand side of the sidewalk. If you need to pass someone, pass on the left just like you would on a highway. See the example below:
If you’re traveling with kids, instead of everyone holdings hands and walking beside each other and blocking off a sidewalk (which will cause problems), walk in a line, which lets people pass you if necessary.
Sidewalks are easy once you get the hang of this.
2. How to spot locals
Many people will tell you to “do as the locals do” in a place like NYC. I agree. But how can you spot a local? Here are some strategies I use that hopefully aren’t too presumptive:
- People wearing suits not around Broadway
- People with headphones in
- Older men wearing tweed jackets and baseball caps
- Women wearing flats but carrying purses large enough for heels/nicer shoes
- People who cross the street whenever traffic is clear without waiting for the crosswalk light
3. How to tell cab drivers where you want to go
Street then avenue if you’re in Manhattan. Don’t say “avenue” either. If I need to get to 53rd and Lexington, I’ll say “fifty-three and Lex”. I find it better to say fifty-three instead of fifty-third, most cab drivers in the city don’t speak English as a first language and I feel like this makes it easier on them.
4. Understand taxi lights
This is the easiest tip of all and will save your arm from attempting to hail occupied taxis.
If the light is on, the taxi is available. If the light isn’t on, the taxi isn’t available, no matter how much you wave/yell at it.
As always, your mileage may vary, but hopefully this will be helpful for you. Leave your favorite NYC tips in the comments below!
This is great advice! NYC can be very intimidating for some people and this is a great post on how to not piss off the locals and get to where you need to go.
1. The subway isn’t that hard, nor is it scary or awful. Uptown trains go north; downtown trains go south.
2. New Yorkers aren’t rude – they’re in a hurry.
3. Keep your purse/bag/wallet in front of you so you can make sure it’s not hitting anyone – and to keep contents safe.
4. If it’s Christmastime and you’re in a hurry, avoid taking a cab, especially around Rockefeller Center.
5. Walk as much as possible. It’s the best way to experience the city.
6. Hit up the basement of Grand Central Terminal for inexpensive food and places to sit when you’re wandering around the city.
7. You probably don’t need to take a selfie at the 9/11 Memorial.
8. Wander through the holiday markets that spring up around town. They’re awesome.
These are excellent, thanks Mandy! You should write the travel blog apparently.
Your tip about walking on the sidewalk is the Numero Uno Mosto Importante tip – period. I thought I was the only person who treated it that way!